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The Selfish Truth: Why Keeping Your eBook Idea to Yourself is Hurting Others

Oct 16 / Dr. Janice R. Love

We’ve all been there—sitting on an idea, a story, or some expertise that we “know” could make a difference in someone else’s life. But for some reason, we never take that next step. We don’t write the eBook, don’t share our knowledge, and don’t ask for help when we feel stuck. It feels like a personal problem, right? “I’ll figure it out eventually,” we tell ourselves.

 

But what if I told you that not asking for help is actually a bit selfish? Hear me out.

 

Have I ever told you about how I let fear keep me from doing the very thing that could help so many others? Even though I had plenty of experience as an author, I struggled to write my third book. I kept telling myself, “I’ll get to it soon,” but deep down, fear and doubt were holding me back. I worried that maybe my story wasn’t important enough, or that no one would really benefit from what I had to share. I stayed stuck in that cycle for way too long.

 

Then, during a conversation with my coach, she hit me with some tough love. In a not-so-kind way, she said, “The longer you wait to write your story, the more selfish you’re being. There are so many women out there who need the help only you can provide!” Me, selfish? That word stung, but as she explained further, I realized she was right.

That's when I remembered the scripture, Luke 12:48, “To whom much is given, much is required.” It hit me like a revelation. I had been given so much—strength, resilience, and the wisdom gained from navigating my own struggles. That wasn’t just for my benefit; it was a gift meant to be shared. I realized that holding back my story wasn’t just about fear—it was about responsibility. I had a duty to pay it forward, to help others who were facing the same challenges I once did. It became clear that my journey could serve as a guide for others, and it was time to stop hesitating and start giving back by telling my story.

 

Yes, my story—my journey—wasn’t just for me. It had the potential to inspire, uplift, and offer guidance to other women facing the same struggles I’d overcome. By holding back, I was depriving them of that help. It was a hard truth to swallow, but that conversation became the turning point I needed. I stopped letting fear dictate my actions and finally got to work. And now, I’m committed to helping others do the same.

 


The World Needs Your Story

Everyone has a story. It could be about overcoming hardship, achieving something extraordinary, or just learning from the everyday struggles that life throws your way. Whether you know it or not, someone “needs” to hear your story. Your insights, your perspective, your unique way of solving a problem could be the thing that changes someone else’s life for the better.

 

But here’s the catch: if you keep that story locked away because you’re afraid to ask for help, you’re robbing the world of something valuable. You’re withholding knowledge that could inspire, inform, or help others overcome challenges. And that’s why not asking for help is selfish—not in a malicious way, but in a way that limits your potential impact.

 


Why Don't We Ask for Help?

We often hesitate to ask for help because of pride, fear, or the belief that we “should” be able to do everything ourselves. Here’s what typically holds us back:

 

1. Fear of appearing weak or incompetent – We think, “If I ask for help, people will think I can’t handle this.”

2. Perfectionism – We convince ourselves, “I’ll ask for help once I’ve figured out more on my own.”

3. Underestimating the value of collaboration – Many of us don’t realize how much faster and better things get done with guidance and support.

 

But asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness. In fact, it’s one of the most empowering things you can do. Whether it’s seeking advice from someone who’s already done what you want to do, signing up for a course, or attending a webinar, reaching out is the key to moving forward.


Your eBook Could Be the Solution Someone's Waiting For

Think about the problems you’ve faced and overcome. Chances are, someone out there is dealing with the same challenges right now. What if your eBook could be the roadmap that helps them solve their problems faster, easier, or with less stress?

 

Not asking for help could mean delaying or even never sharing that roadmap with the world. And that’s not just holding you back—it’s holding others back, too.

 

You don’t have to navigate this journey alone. When you ask for help, you’re opening yourself up to faster progress, better insights, and a more refined finished product. And the sooner you ask for help, the sooner you’ll be able to share your eBook with the people who need it most.


Asking for Help is the First Step

If writing an eBook has been on your to-do list but you’re unsure where to start or you’ve felt overwhelmed by the process, it’s time to ask for help. I know how difficult it can be to get started, which is why I’m offering a FREE Webinar  to guide you through the exact steps to get your eBook written in just 15 days.

During the webinar, you’ll learn:

·      How to define your eBook’s purpose

·      How to choose your topic based on your personal journey

·      How to structure your story to make an impact

·      How to identify the problem your eBook solves

·      How to present actionable solutions

·      How to create a professional, eye-catching cover

 

Take Action Now. Stop putting off the help you need to get your eBook out into the world. Someone is waiting to hear your story and benefit from your knowledge.

 

Join me for my FREE webinar, "From Idea to eBook in 15 Days: Transform Your Story into a Problem-Solving Guide, and let’s get that book written!

 

📅 Date: Thursday, October 17th 

Time: 7:00 p.m. CST 

Click here to register: https://streamyard.com/watch/QZMJGJHQYJHG

 

 It’s not selfish to ask for help—it’s selfless because it enables you to share your gift with others. Let’s make your eBook a reality before the end of the year.

Blessings,
Dr. Janice R. Love